updated 06/17/2014 AT 5:00 PM ET
•originally published 06/18/2014 AT 8:00 AM ET
“Our home videos are pretty self-evident that these kids loved to shake, rattle and roll,” their dad, Bruce Hough, tells PEOPLE.
But as Julianne, 25, and Derek, 29, recount in PEOPLE s new cover story, the success they’ve found on the dance floor came at a hefty price.
When Julianne was just 10 and Derek was 13, they left their sheltered life in Utah, as well as their three older sisters and parents (who were then going through a divorce), for the prestigious London dance school Italia Conti Academy of Theatre Arts to train as ballroom dance pros.
Moving in with family friends Shirley and Corky Ballas (whose son Mark also became a DWTS pro), they endured a grueling schedule that had them leaving the house every morning at 6:45, taking the subway by themselves and heading to school. “I remember one of my first days there I got off at the wrong train station,” Julianne says. “I was just standing there thinking, ‘Where am I?’ ”
They battled homesickness, and young Julianne especially struggled with the pressure of trying to fit into the mature world of ballroom dance. Thanks to her spray tans and competition makeup, “When I look back, I think it s so sad I have no pictures of me with a cute, bare, 10-year-old face,” she says.