updated 10/06/2009 AT 5:20 PM ET
•originally published 10/06/2009 AT 5:30 PM ET
Bethenny Frankel of The Real Housewives of New York City is not shy about her opinions – and now she’s giving her advice to Jon Gosselin.
“I think you’re defeated. You need to pull yourself up from your bootstraps and get back to your kids and get your crap together,” Frankel tells the embattled reality TV dad on The Insider in a segment they taped together to air Tuesday. “You need to pull it together.”