updated 05/07/2010 AT 9:00 AM ET
•originally published 05/07/2010 AT 7:00 AM ET
All is fair in love and war at Pink and Carey Hart’s house these days. But it wasn’t always that way.
“I’m so dramatic … and in the past, I’ve been really mean,” the singer, 30, says about her 4-year-marriage to the motocross racer in Cosmopolitan’s June issue.
“Carey sat me down one day when we were fighting and said, ‘Baby, when you call me names, it hurts my feelings. Please try to stop.’ And I was like ‘Wow, thank you for telling me how you feel.’ Now I fight fair.”