updated 07/16/2010 AT 12:00 PM ET
•originally published 07/16/2010 AT 12:30 PM ET
The-Dream admits his marriage to Christina Milian isn’t just on the rocks, it’s over – and they “failed.”
“Even though we were trying to overcome personal things between us, I was just simply scared and embarrassed to let everyone know we WERE FAILING and HAVE NOW FAILED!” the rapper-producer, 32, writes on his Web site.
“If there’s anyone to blame,” he writes, “please blame me and me alone for not being upfront!”