updated 11/16/2011 AT 4:00 PM ET
•originally published 11/16/2011 AT 5:00 PM ET
Tori Spelling’s birthday gift to husband Dean McDermott? A love letter.
The actress posted “A Love Letter to My Soul Mate” on her website on Wednesday.
“I would dream of you for so long,” Spelling wrote. “So many represented you. My dad. Every Ken doll I ever played with. Every prince in every Disney cartoon. The lead character in every John Hughes film. Not one guy I ever dated. And, then you became a reality.”