updated 07/04/2012 AT 9:00 AM ET
•originally published 07/04/2012 AT 3:00 PM ET
Both absent on Tuesday: his estranged wife, Katie Holmes, who filed for divorce last week, and his daughter Suri, 6, who has remained with Mom in their new Manhattan apartment since last week’s bombshell split announcement.
“The plan was he was going to spend his birthday with Katie and Suri [in New York City],” a source tells PEOPLE. “Then they were going to fly to California where he is going to finish [filming] Oblivion and spend time there.”