updated 08/15/2012 AT 11:10 AM ET
•originally published 08/15/2012 AT 3:55 PM ET
If PDA seals the boyfriend status deal, it’s official that Rumer Willis is dating again!
The 23-year-old was snapped holding hands with Hard Times of RJ Berger actor Jayson Blair on Monday as well as going in for a quick peck during a smoke break outside a café in L.A.
According to a source they met “over cocktails through mutual friends,” and have been trying to keep it a secret since becoming an item in early June. Willis and Blair, 28, had been seen flirting and touching affectionately at West Hollywood’s Bagatelle restaurant, causing speculation over whether the two were an item.
“From the second she sat down, he had his arm around her shoulder and they were laughing, flirting and seemed very into each other,” an onlooker told PEOPLE.
Blair is set to appear in NBC’s The New Normal, which premieres in September and also stars Real Housewives of Atlanta’s NeNe Leakes. In fact, New Normal creator Ryan Murphy Tweeted a pic of Blair in his underwear from the show’s set last week, writing, “Just another hot summer day on the set of THE NEW NORMAL. @Jayson_Blair as Clay keeps it cool.”
Willis is currently preparing to celebrate her 24th birthday on Aug. 16. “Can’t wait to spend time with my family,” she Tweeted Saturday.