updated 11/12/2012 AT 3:00 PM ET
•originally published 11/13/2012 AT 1:15 PM ET
“It’s been an intense time, in good ways and bad,” she says in the December issue of InStyle. “You find out who you really are and who you’re married to. You find things inside yourself you never imagined were there.”
As for being so forthcoming about her battle with depression, Zeta-Jones, 43, whose next movie Broken City is out in January, admits it hasn’t been easy.