updated 01/09/2013 AT 10:00 AM ET
•originally published 01/09/2013 AT 10:55 AM ET
“I can’t just only be on reality TV and show everything when it’s fairy princess, fairytale, and then not take my hits when I have to,” she says on Wednesday’s The Ellen DeGeneres Show. “Just going through something personal you have so many different emotions, and I feel like a bit of a disappointment to all of you. And, I feel like a failure.”
“You are not a disappointment. You are not a failure,” DeGeneres says.