updated 05/29/2013 AT 1:50 PM ET
•originally published 05/29/2013 AT 2:00 PM ET
A final judgment for their divorce was entered Tuesday in Los Angeles Superior Court, records show, officially ending their more than decade-long marriage.
“Irreconcilable differences have caused the irremediable breaking of the marriage,” say the papers signed by Cox, Arquette and a judge. “The marital status of the parties is terminated.”
By all accounts, it was the most amicable of breakups, with both seeking joint custody of daughter Coco, 8, as they continued to say nice things about each other.
“He’s my best friend in the world,” the Cougar Town star said on The Ellen DeGeneres Show in January. “I love him.”
The following week, Arquette told PEOPLE, “She’s incredible. … I love her, too, and she’s an amazing person, a beautiful person.”