updated 08/26/2013 AT 1:15 PM ET
•originally published 08/26/2013 AT 2:15 PM ET
One thing is clear, it’s been a rough weekend for Lamar Odom. The Clippers player and Khloé Kardashian Odom haven’t been seen together publicly since June 2, amid multiple reports that he is battling drug addiction and his marriage is on the rocks.
“They really do love each other,” a source tells PEOPLE of the couple who wed in 2009, “But she really feels that this problem is out of control, and she’s hurt that he won’t get help.” Kardashian Odom, 29, and her family attempted to stage an intervention last week, that resulted in Odom leaving their Tarzana, Calif., home, adds the source.
Odom, 32, has faced drug accusations before. In 2001, when playing for the Clippers, he violated NBA drug policies twice in eight months.
Apologizing at a press conference he admitted to using marijuana and told reporters and fans, “I’ve made a couple [of mistakes] and I may make a couple again, but hopefully they won’t be as big as this one.”