updated 04/11/2014 AT 12:25 PM ET
•originally published 04/11/2014 AT 1:05 PM ET
In late March, E! first reported Rowe was engaged. And Thursday, TMZ confirmed that Schaffel popped the question three weeks ago – but Rowe, 55, didn’t accept the proposal, despite posting a photo of the two of them and the sizable sparkler on Facebook. At the time, TMZ reported, Rowe reportedly worried she had cancer – but after being diagnosed with sarcoidosis, an auto-immune disease, Wednesday, the site said she had a change of heart.
“He loves me, knows my kids, loves my kids, and we’ll see where this goes,” Rowe told TMZ, noting that she and Schaffel have yet to set a date.
Rowe and Jackson were married for three years – during which time they had two children, Prince, 17, and Paris, 16 – before their 1999 divorce.