Candace Cameron Bure has been married for 19 years to former NHL star Valeri Bure – an eternity by Hollywood standards.
But like any couple with three children, the Bures have often had to redirect and refocus their marriage.
“Sometimes you’re nicer to strangers than you are to your spouse,” she tells PEOPLE. “You forget to do things that you promised you would do. You get comfortable and lazy. That happens in every marriage.”