Gretchen Rossi & Slade Smiley Are Engaged After She Proposes

He said yes!

Slade Smiley is engaged to his longtime girlfriend and Real Housewives of Orange County costar, Gretchen Rossi, 34, after she recently proposed, PEOPLE has confirmed.

The popping of the question will be televised on Bravo’s hit show.

Real Housewives of Orange County Shocker: Gretchen and Tamra Make Up

Who are these blond women and what have they done with Tamra Barney and Gretchen Rossi?

The Real Housewives of Orange County returned to Bravo Tuesday with the most unexpected of twists: Tamra and Gretchen kiss and make up. Okay, that’s a joke – they don’t kiss.

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Gretchen Rossi Is Not Rushing to the Altar with Slade Smiley

There will be no wedding bells just yet for Gretchen Rossi and Slade Smiley – and she’s fine with that.

“By the time I was 30, I had lived three lives,” the Real Housewives of Orange County star, 33, told PEOPLE at Bravo’s upfront presentation in Los Angeles. “I’d already been married and divorced, and got engaged again just to lose him to cancer.”

And although Rossi is head over heels for Smiley, 37, the fear of failure is keeping the blonde beauty from tying the knot for a second time.